Visiting Pompeii with Kids: Helpful Guide on What NOT to Do

Resting in the shadow of the ominous Mount Vesuvius just outside of Naples, you find the ancient cities of Pompeii and Herculaneum. Visiting Pompeii with kids is like taking a step back in time, when the pictures and words on a page jump out of the textbooks and come to life before your eyes.

Unlike the crumbling Roman Forum or the looted Colosseum, Pompeii was preserved intact nearly 2,000 years ago covered in volcanic ash after Mount Vesuvius erupted in AD 79, allowing us to see what an ancient Roman city was really like. When in Southern Italy, you should absolutely take advantage of the opportunity to see such a well-preserved ancient city. However, there are some things you need to know before you go. After visiting twice, here are a few things we learned about how NOT to do Pompeii.

Visiting Pompeii Italy with Kids: What Not to Do

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Don’t find a guide at the gate (and definitely not outside the gate)

If you want a private guide of Pompeii, it is best to arrange this in advance. If you wait until you arrive and try to find a licensed guide at the gate, you really don’t know what you are going to get. Since we had a decent experience years ago, we went this route and unfortunately, the only guy around was someone who caused me concern from the start but after getting another couple to share the cost with us, we thought it was better than nothing.

I was wrong. Next time, I’d arrange for a private tour in advance from a trusted operator like Walks of Italy. If you are feeling really ambitious, you can even take a tour up Mount Vesuvius.

While our guide did point out a few interesting facts, like that Pompeii had actually been covered up by ash and rock a few times before the more infamous Vesuvius explosion (some people never learn?), his knowledge was pretty scant.

He did like to point out (over and over) how the sewer system worked, which was a great feat of engineering. But when I asked questions about how murals were preserved with colors intact, I got answers like “they are good at their job.” Whoa, what a different experience from the amazing tour guides we’d had of Ancient Rome and the Colosseum, Vatican, and Pantheon, who were all art history graduates with a wealth of knowledge (and great personalities.)

Avoid the brothels

That isn’t just a broad statement of life, it is specific to Pompeii. Brothels are a big attraction on tours. I recalled some very detailed graffiti from our visit sans kids, which I wasn’t too eager to explain to my 10-year-old, so I smartly asked our guide if we could skip that site.

He obliged, but then preceded to point out the graphic signposts that mark the path, should we wish to explore on our own after. What did I say about choosing a good guide? Needless to say, that raised a few questions.

How NOT to do Pompeii: Tips for visiting Pompeii, Italy with kids, including all the things not to do.
A preserved fresco in one of the villas

Don’t go at mid-day

There is very little shade in Pompeii and the sun reflecting off all that stone can be brutal on a hot day. Your best bet is to go in the early morning or late afternoon.

Of course, if you are traveling out of Rome, it is a two-and-a-half-hour drive, so avoiding mid-morning can be tough unless you stop off in Naples. Whenever you go, be sure to bring along plenty of water, because there aren’t many facilities within the archeological site, and wear a hat and sunscreen.

How NOT to do Pompeii: Tips for visiting Pompeii, Italy with kids, including all the things not to do.
Inside the bathhouse you can still see the lockers and the detail of the ceiling.

Don’t think you are going to see it all

Pompeii was a large city and if you climb up high, you will see that so much of it is still unexcavated. Especially if you are traveling with kids, you aren’t going to see it all.

Try to pick out a few main sights, like some of the wealthy merchant houses, the public baths, the plaster casts, the forum, and the amphitheater. I’d suggest mapping out a route in advance. If you aren’t committed to Pompeii, you could visit Herculaneum instead, which is smaller, has more shade, and is well-preserved, you just won’t get the sense of a larger city.

How NOT to do Pompeii: Tips for visiting Pompeii, Italy with kids, including all the things not to do.
An amphitheater in Pompeii

Think ahead about where you will have lunch

When we exited the scavi (or archeological site), we were hot, tired and hungry. So we did what every tourist shouldn’t do and went to a restaurant nearby. We knew enough to avoid the small snack bars right outside the gate and thought we made a major find at Bacco e Arianna right up the hill.

While the courtyard dining was lovely and shaded, and the food was delicious, these guys are excellent marketers. We met the owner and he convinced us to try some fresh fish right off his son’s boat…and that we would each need our own order (this was after a very generous selection of antipasto, which would have been enough.)

We forgot to ask the market price of the fish so we did a double-take when the bill came. Not only was it one of our most expensive meals in Italy, but he also only took cash. The food was great but it came at a high price. Especially since we used all our cash to pay the bill, leaving us short and unable to hire a porter when we got to Positano. Which meant we had to carry our bags, and our leftover fish (because at that price we were taking it with us), down 100 steps to our apartment rental.

Don’t wear flip flops

We actually got this one right, but only because we had experience. The ruins of Pompeii are dry and dusty and you will be walking over uneven cobblestone streets. I highly recommend closed-toe shoes or at least a good, sturdy walking sandal.

If you choose to go it alone, I’d recommend downloading the Pompeii app from Kreisa. The app offers a map, guided paths based on time or itinerary, descriptions and an audio tour for all the main buildings, the story of Pompeii and even augmented reality to show you what things used to look like. And read the complete guide to visiting Pompeii here.


How NOT to do Pompeii: Tips for visiting Pompeii, Italy with kids, including all the things not to do.

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Publish Date: April 1, 2015

15 thoughts on “Visiting Pompeii with Kids: Helpful Guide on What NOT to Do”

  1. Great info. Thank you. Going with 3 kids in july and was cOnsidering Doing it on our own or looking fOr guide when we arRived at the city–wont now! Good tip on the brOthels too ๐Ÿ˜‰

    1. Make sure to bring sunscreen and hats! Definitely better to book a guide in advance. Let me know if you need recommendations or help booking.

      1. Good Afternoon – Thank you for your information. Could you please assist me with recommendations for bookings. Once I hear from you I can let you know the itinerary.

  2. i went to pompeii and Herculaneum for a school history trips we knew a bit about the history of the cities, like in 62AD theres was an earthquake and some of the temples were never fully restored before 79AD.
    my history teacher was also very good to have on tour because he is so passionate about it.
    we had 2 tour guides for Pompeii, a man and a women. the women was great as she got down to the point fast, but the man kept dragging on and on and in the end when he left we were like ‘phew’.
    i think another thing to think about with tour guides is that some can be quid detailed while others may not know as much. an example of this was the statue and temple of Eumachia. she was a priestess which was not a role a women was expected to play as they were more for men.
    there is a sign outside the temple and it talks about how the temple was dedicated to her two sons to make them known, however some guides might tell you her sons built it, when they were still babies.
    there is a cafe right near the forum but the Italian government did turn an actual original forum building into the cafe so not recommended.
    also recommend walking a bit further through pompeii to see the city of the dead which is where they were buried and it is one of the coolest graves you’ll ever see.
    before you enter pompeii check out the stalls and little cafes set up as the souvenirs are cheaper there and the hot chocolates are solo good.
    hope you have fun ๐Ÿ™‚

  3. Don’t wear flip flops, heels or wedges. I saw a lady who was wearing wedges fall on the cobblestones and felt so sorry for her but all I kept thinking is “glad it wasn’t me”. Bring more water than you think you will need and small snacks. If you are traveling with a small toddler like we were, I would purchase one of those toddler carriers. We bought our 18 month old’s stroller and although it came in handy sometimes, you don’t want to be carrying it around in warmer weather or over steps and cobblestones. Also, if you are traveling in the summer to Pompeii there will be minimal shade, we soaked our daughter’s extra tshirt with water and used it to pat our faces to keep cool. It’s sounds crazy but we used what we had. My last tip is to use sunscreen in the summer. I’m African American and let’s just say that Pompeii gave me a nice, unwanted tan.

  4. I haven’t been to Pompeii and I am not sure I would go given the heat, the crowds and the dust. My hubby and I like to go to places that are more off the beaten path and there are other locales that are similar to pompeii in terms of architecture etc. What I love about this post is that you are preventing a lot of people from having a miserable time by providing such great tips!

    1. Thanks Andi! Ostia Antica outside of Rome is a bit less crowded as is Herculaneum near Pompeii.

  5. Great advise Tamara!

    We went to Italy in September last year and were hoping to make it down to Pompeii – but the kids (then 2.5 years and 6 months) were not having it that day! We will have to make a return trip.

    I love your story about the fish…I would have been taking that to-go as well! Also, great info on the brothels – I would have had no clue and would have been trying to think on my feet on how to explain that.

  6. Valeria @ Rome, New York, London, World

    I’d say “don’t wear flip flops” is a valid advice when visiting ALL of Italy ๐Ÿ™‚ There is so much walking to do on cobblestones, you should always wear your most comfortable shoes…and my insider two-cents is that Italians barely ever wear flip flops in cities so if you do wear them you’ll stand out as a tourist right away ๐Ÿ™‚
    Valeria @

  7. Katie @ Domestiphobia

    I’m SO glad this didn’t happen to us and we had a really great guide! I also loved our meal afterwords. My only regret is that we didn’t have enough time — I would’ve loved to have seen that amphitheater!

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