How to Plan a Perfect Romantic Getaway to Scottsdale, Arizona

While Hannah was at astronomy camp in Tucson, Glenn and I had a chance to have some rare time to ourselves. I thought about options for romantic getaways in Arizona, and Scottsdale topped my list. There are so many things to do in Scottsdale that make it a perfect romantic getaway destination — beautiful resorts, wonderful spas, over 900 restaurants, museums, art galleries, shopping, outdoor activities, and even a vibrant wine-growing community.

I actually enjoyed Scottsdale so much that I started to work on convincing Glenn that it could be a possible retirement destination some day. After all, we have a few requirements for wherever we retire: someplace warm (Scottsdale more than checks that off), a small city with great restaurants (I mentioned there are over 900, right?), affordable housing where I can walk into town (Scottsdale has beautiful homes and condos walking distance to downtown/Old Town), and a good wine-growing region.

You see, while of course we love to drink wine, Glenn also has a dream of having a second career working in a tasting room. He has even started getting his certifications toward making that a reality. All I know is that I cannot live New England forever. And while Scottsdale is an upscale community and housing isn’t cheap, it sure sounds better than prices in Napa Valley.

During our four day Scottsdale getaway, we certainly got a full blast of the Arizona sun during, with temps up to 108°F (and a higher real-feel temperature.) There were certainly times when I felt as if my flip flops were melting into the pavement, and I didn’t go anywhere without guzzling even more water than usual. But as long as I can get some air conditioning breaks, I think I can manage it. Being able to sit outside in the evenings and enjoy the warm air on my skin without worrying about a sweater — that was nice. And I also appreciate that restaurants and shops don’t blast AC to simulate a northeastern winter inside like I often find in Florida.

But enough about the future, let’s talk about planning a romantic weekend in Scottsdale, whether it is a stand alone visit or part of a southwest road trip itinerary.

Old Town Scottsdale shops

Romantic Getaways to Scottsdale, Arizona

Note: Our visit was hosted by Experience Scottsdale. We received complimentary accommodations, entrance tickets, and some meals. All opinions are my own. This post contains affiliate links. If you click a link and make a purchase, I may receive a small commission.

The first step in planning a romantic getaway is figuring out where to stay. Luckily Scottsdale offers a range of options. If you are looking for a resort and spa, we absolutely loved everything about our stay at the Hyatt Regency Scottsdale Resort & Spa at Gainey Ranch. Not only did we get the full resort experience (complete with the welcome cocktail), but I appreciate that it is only a 15 minute drive from downtown. After coming from Tucson, where many of the resorts are located 30-45 minutes from downtown or other local attractions, this convenience is key because I don’t like to only stay on a resort unless I’m on an island in the middle of nowhere.

If you prefer more of a chic, boutique hotel closer to town, we also spent one night at the hip Hotel Adeline. Two different properties, both with their own charms. Let me break it down for you.

Hyatt Regency Scottsdale Resort & Spa at Gainey Ranch

Hyatt Regency Scottsdale

The Hyatt  Regency Scottsdale is truly a resort property. In addition to the hotel’s 493 rooms and check rates and reviewssuites, there is also a 2.5 acre “water playground”, four tennis courts, miles of biking and jogging trails, the amazing Spa Avania, Camp Hyatt Kachina kid’s club, five different restaurants, and even a Native American Learning Center. Guests can also enjoy 27-holes of championship golf at the award-winning Gainey Ranch Golf Club. The only downside of all this is the possibility of a long walk from the elevator to your room.


Hyatt Regency Scottsdale king room

My room was very spacious, with a huge balcony large enough for two lounge chairs and space to spare. The view overlooked the pool area without being loud, but still felt private. We were in a King room, which also featured a very large bathroom with a walk-in shower.

Hyatt Regency Scottsdale pool view

I found all the amenities I need to luxuriate in my surroundings including a comfortable plush Hyatt Grand Bed, a very large-screen TV, iPod docking stations (and very conveniently placed USB charging!), and even a refrigerator (if only I had used it to keep my charcuterie board welcome amenity fresh), and an in-room safe , and a refrigerator. The only downside was that the doors slam loudly and when you are in the bathroom, you can hear conversations from the room next door.

The hotel also provided me with a Club Access room, meaning that I was free to make use of the  Regency Club, which offers a European-style breakfast, evening hors d’oeuvres & cocktail service, as well as printers and a convenient place to work if needed.


Hyatt Regency SWB

I really wanted to take the time to explore Scottsdale (more on those recommendations later), so I only spent one evening dining at the hotel. But that experience was fabulous.

We headed down to SWB, the hotel’s Southwestern restaurant for the “Wine Me Dine Me” chef’s tasting dinner. But just because it is Southwestern, don’t assume this is casual Mexican fare, it is not at all. However, Chef Juan brings authentic southwestern flavors to all of his dishes.

For the Wine Me, Dine Me experience, you sit at the bar in front of the kitchen so that the sous chef can easily explain each dish and its ingredients. The experience includes a four-course menu, along with a tequila and wine pairing.

Wine Me Dine Me Scottsdale Hyatt

We started off with deliciously-prepared lamb chops (and this is from someone that doesn’t traditionally eat lamb), followed by a fresh green salad with peeled heirloom tomatoes and fruit. For our entree, we had halibut. Each dish utilized southwestern flavors, including chilis, but none were especially spicy. The ingredients complemented rather than overwhelmed. The entire experience was so enjoyable that I barely remember the desert, except to recall that it had a beautiful presentation and seemed like a fresh take on dulce de leche.


Hyatt Regency Scottsdale pool

The Hyatt pool is not just one pool, it is actually a series of 10 different pools that together make up the water playground. You can enter the assortment of adult-only pools, which are linked to the family pools through a series of 20 fountains and 45 waterfalls that create a refreshing environment. The family pool features a 30-foot, three-story waterslide, as well as a small sand beach and zero entry pool. There is even a pool set up for an aquatic volleyball game.

All the pools are serviced by the H2Oasis, which offers light fare, beverages, and tropical cocktails. The small shop is perfect for guests that may have forgotten their sunscreen, hat, googles, coverup, or even swimsuit. My personal favorite feature is the water bottle refilling station, making it affordable to stay hydrated in that intense sun.

Spa Avania

Hyatt Regency Scottsdale spa pool

Long before I arrived in Scottsdale, friends had told me about their amazing experiences at Spa Avania at the Hyatt. I’ve seen a lot of great hotel spas, but Spa Avania definitely deserves to be on that list. This is definitely the type of spa where you want to book a treatment (or two or three) and plan on spending the entire day there relaxing.

Spa Avania has 19 treatment rooms, including three for couples, and five garden-side treatment rooms with private entrances. The women’s and men’s locker rooms both feature relaxation rooms, a steam room, dry sauna, and outdoor hot and cold plunge pools. Even the showers are a treat, with 10 shower heads for a full-body experience.

Himalayan salt room

Before or after your treatments, you can also enjoy a mineral pool, available to spa guests only, and an outdoor relaxation area. Drinks and food are served outside so you really won’t want to leave!

I started off with 30 minutes of relaxation in the Himalayan Salt Room. They provide an iPad and headphones with music or guided meditation to pass the time. This was followed up with a Citrus Drench Wrap, which was a combination of body scrub and wrap, which left my skin glowing and ultra-soft.

Hotel Adeline

Hotel Adeline

Something about this downtown Scottsdale hotel spoke to me, maybe it was the “Wanderers check rates and reviewsWelcome” sign over the archway into the pool area. Or perhaps it was the Tiffany blue accents in the room and bath products. Either way, the hip, retro vibe would seem as at home on South Beach as it does in the desert.

This 1970s-style renovated motel goes all in on the cool factor to overcome some of the other obvious drawbacks, such as room size and luxury finishings. The main attraction is truly the pool. Lined with cabanas and lounge chairs, it is modern while not feeling like a “scene” (at least not while we were there). They offer both a pool bar and chair service, and there are relaxation areas for chilling out in the evening after the sun goes down.

Hotel Adeline room

The rooms at Hotel Adeline are cosy and comfortable, although the bathroom is a bit small for comfort (and I have a pet peeve about sinks located outside of the bathroom.)

My favorite thing about the Hotel Adeline is the design. The lobby, restaurant, and rooms are all stylish and fun. While I didn’t get to eat at the restaurant, I did learn about a secret “guests only” speakeasy/whisky bar — taking the cool factor up another couple of notches.

Scottsdale Hotel Adeline lobby

While the hotel doesn’t scream “romantic”, it does shout “cool” and if that doesn’t appeal to your significant other, save it for a girls’ trip instead.

Things to do in Scottsdale, Arizona

There are plenty of fun ways to have couple time in Scottsdale. As parents, we love doing the kinds of things that are more challenging with kids in tow — like wine tasting, browsing art galleries, enjoying a romantic dinner, and taking long walks outdoors.

Desert Botanical Gardens

Scottsdale Desert Botanical Gardens

There are tons of places to go hiking in the Scottsdale and greater Phoenix area. From easier hikes in the McDowell Sonoran Preserve, to the much more challenging Camelback Mountain. You can also take desert jeep tours, segway tours, and hot air balloon rides. However, given the heat, I opted for an easier stroll through the Desert Botanical Gardens. I have visited botanical gardens in Montreal, Pennsylvania, and Wilmington, NC to name a few. But none of those featured a desert landscape.

Kangaroo rat

Sometimes I think of botanical gardens as a place my mom would enjoy (and she would) but that I would be bored at. Either I’m getting older (true), or I have grown to appreciate them more, but I spent a fun hour plus exploring the Desert Botanical Gardens. I think what did it for me was that it is such a vastly different landscape than what I am used to. I find desert flora and fauna fascinating. But also because it wasn’t just plants, I saw quite a few creatures too (but luckily no snakes). I saw rabbits, lizards, ground squirrels, regular squirrels, hummingbirds, doves, quail, and these adorable little creatures that look like mini prairie dogs. From the book I consulted on creatures of the Sonoran desert, the closest I could determine was that it may be a kangaroo rat, but I can’t be sure, so I’ll stick to thinking of them as mini prairie dogs.

Western Spirit: Scottsdale’s Museum of the West

Scottsdale Museum of the West

Maybe I was meant to live in the Southwest, because I have also always had an interest in Native American culture and art. I expected the Museum of the West to be a historical account of the Southwest, but it really represented southwestern culture through collections of art and memorabilia.

There was the Rennard Strickland Collection of Western Film History, which, through movie posters, really made you think about how our perceptions of Native American culture have been shaped by the movie industry, often quite inaccurately. I really enjoy the art of Joe Beeler, a founding member of the Cowboy Artists of America who helped define western art.

Scottsdale Museum of the West pottery

The museum also features exhibits with collections of saddles, belt buckles, spurs, and other cowboy gear. Altogether, it houses a significant amount of western art in a beautiful space that is fun to enjoy.

Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art

Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art

If you are an art aficionado, the Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art is a short but interesting stop in downtown Old Town Scottsdale. I’m a fan of large contemporary exhibits like I found at the Dia: Beacon so I enjoyed the Museum of Contemporary Art. As with the Museum of the West, I also loved the building as much as the exhibit.

Scottsdale infinity room

Of course my favorite was the Infinity Room special exhibit from Refik Andol. Available through September 30th 2018, this exhibit requires a separate timed-entry ticket. As you enter the room, and the door closes behind you, the mirrored floor and walls can be disorienting but it has a cool effect to watch the play of light and images from every perspective.

Wine Tasting in Scottsdale

Carlson Creek winery Scottsdale

Even though the folks at Experience Scottsdale arranged for us to have a wine tasting at Carlson Creek Vineyard, we honestly didn’t expect to enjoy the wine. From our experience with other wines in the southwest in Texas and New Mexico, we expected the wines to be on the sweeter side. Not only were the wines excellent, but we both thoroughly enjoyed interacting with the staff and learning the backstory of the winery’s owner.

I fully believe that so much of a wine tasting experience has to do with the atmosphere — the ambience of the tasting room and the knowledge and personality of the staff. Carlson Creek ticks all of these boxes with a beautiful tasting room and welcoming but very knowledgeable staff. And the excellent wine doesn’t hurt! I particularly enjoyed the award-winning Rule of Three, the Sangiovese, and the Chenin Blanc.

Scottsdale’s Art Scene

Scottsdale Soleri bridge

In addition to the Downtown Arts District, featuring hundreds of shops and galleries, Scottsdale also has an impressive collection of public art. The Scottsdale Public Art Program includes a collection of 70 permanent and 30 temporary works of art that are scattered throughout the town. If you are really into it, you can even download an interactive map and plan a self-guided walking tour of the art. Also be sure to walk along the downtown canal and the Soleri pedestrian bridge.

Old Town Scottsdale horses

Of course walking around Old Town Scottsdale is also fun, although I prefer the shops and galleries along Fifth or Marshall, versus the touristy shops of Old Town. Getting around Scottsdale is also a breeze, as there is ample street parking, free trolley service, and plenty of easy-to-use Lime Bikes around.

Scottsdale mural

Of course, one of my favorite things to do in Scottsdale is to sample a few of its many restaurants. But, I’ve saved my recommendations for our favorite downtown Scottsdale restaurants for another post.


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Publish Date: June 26, 2018

3 thoughts on “How to Plan a Perfect Romantic Getaway to Scottsdale, Arizona”

  1. Samantha Mergel

    Amazing post. I love the places that you’ve shared. The places looks so ideal to spend a memorable getaway with my love ones. I will surely adds this place up to my bucket list. By the way, those pictures are amazing and may i ask how tall the cactus are?

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